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10 Ways to Be Involved at Your Child’s School

Research shows that family involvement with a child’s school is essential for the child’s success. But that doesn’t mean you've blown it if you’re not president of the PTA. Here are 10 basic suggestions for busy parents.




by Debra Weaver

A minimum of whining, no calls from the principal’s office, good grades, and lots of learning! That’s what we parents want for our young learners, but how can we best help them? A variety of studies show that one factor makes a huge difference when it comes to students’ attitude, attendance, and achievement: family involvement in school.

That is the conclusion of A New Generation of Evidence: The Family Is Critical to Student Achievement, edited by Anne Henderson and Nancy Berla  in 1994, a summary of no fewer than 150 research studies on parent involvement with schools.

Unfortunately, work schedules and other commitments make it difficult to be as active with our children’s schools as we’d like. Here are 10 suggestions for busy parents and guardians that you can incorporate into your child rearing style. Doing just a few of them will make you part of the team with your children’s educators.

1.  Attend the school open house and meet the teachers and staff. It’s easier to have a relationship with them when you’ve met face to face.

2.  If you know your child has a problem with, say, skipping assignments or getting overwhelmed with big projects, let teachers know up front. Tell teachers you’d like to know if this problem occurs. Be sure you follow up at home to keep the child on track.

3.  Email is an excellent tool for communication between parents and teachers. If your school’s teachers aren’t already using email to update parents, ask if they can. Email eliminates phone tag (not to mention the possibility that the student will delete a message from school on the home phone!).

4.  When a teacher does call or email with negative news, remain calm and focus on solutions that will help your child succeed, instead of getting defensive with the teacher or angry with the child.

5.  If you do have a criticism of the teacher, make it in private, away from the child. “Criticizing the teacher in front of students undermines the teacher’s authority in the classroom,” says Mary Manning, who teaches chemistry at Imagine College Preparatory High School in St. Louis.

6.  Read and act upon notes and newsletters from the school. This lets school staff know you’re supportive, and you can show your children you know what’s going on there.

7.  Schools often provide ways that parents can help the school without being there during school hours. They may need parents to make phone calls or to work the concession stand during an athletic event.

8.  You may be in a position to give more than your time. Teachers often request that parents collect and donate supplies, like empty egg cartons for an art project. It’s a small thing, but when parents pull together to make a project happen, it’s a big help.

9.  Depending on your field, the school may need your expertise. For example, parents in the sciences could help arrange a field trip to their place of employment. A parent in government could get a guest speaker for class.

10.  Remember when you visit the school to follow the procedures for visitors. Most schools have lists for visitors to sign in and out and may require visitors to be accompanied and wear name badges. These precautions are for the safety of students and staff, so abiding by them makes for a more pleasant and productive visit.

 

Debra Weaver is a writer and educator with 12 years of classroom experience and more in youth programs. She has written pieces for a variety of electronic and print publications, including the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series.

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Your kids—boys and girls alike—express a desire to cook from a very early age, likely without your even realizing it. They make mud pies in the sandbox, play with child-sized cooking sets, and organize kitchens in doll houses or play areas, and they probably inquire about what you’re cooking from the time they begin to communicate.

 

Kids Cooking Activities offers up reasons why you should encourage cooking activities with your kids. (Set up link at underlining to http://www.kids-cooking-activities.com)

 

* Cooking with your children helps them to learn about nutrition and healthy eating. 

* Cooking in the kitchen will give children a boost of self confidence. They are accomplishing a task, learning something important, and contributing to the family.

* Taking time to cook with your kids will give them lasting memories. They will pass the traditions on when they are grown and have their own families.

* In the enthusiasm of creating something themselves, your children will be more likely to eat what they had a hand in making.

* Kids learn real lessons in science, language, math, and creativity in the kitchen. Cooking will help reinforce all these subjects.

* Cooking is a great way to learn life skills. This is especially helpful when children are older and more independent. They won't have to rely on fast food and junk food to sustain them.

* Working together in the kitchen teaches your child teamwork.

* Cooking teaches children planning and making choices skills.

* Kids practice creativity and imagination in the kitchen. Cooking activities are a great way for kids to express themselves and enjoy their creations.  

 

It may take longer to get the meal or snack done, but the moments with your children will be priceless. Remember to have patience. Don't worry about flour on the floor or spilled milk.

 

A role model for cooking with kids

 

Cooking With Kids, a series of 90-second videos, is hosted by James Beard Award-winning chef John Sarich. Development of the program was inspired by the reality of childhood obesity, anorexia and other eating disorders, Type II Diabetes, and low bone density, which have all become national issues. Cooking With Kids encourages parents and children to spend time in the kitchen together preparing healthy meals in ways that improve communication and help children develop healthy nutritional habits. (Set up link at underlining to http://www.cookingwithkids.org/fact.html)

 

The program shows how easy it is for kids to prepare snacks and meals that taste good and that are good for them. It uses the five food groups as a platform for nutrition messages. You can watch the videos with your children through the website, then print out the recipe and go try it yourselves.

 

The recipes that Sarich prepares with kids on the segments teach them which categories on the United States Department of Agriculture’s Food Pyramid are included in the recipe. He explains how vegetable burritos, for example, include foods that have protein, fiber and dairy, and that the burritos are low in fat.

 

Good cooking habits

 

Spatulatta provides 350 step-by-step videos that teach kids good cooking habits, and offers advice for moms, dads and kids on numerous issues related to cooking with kids. It emphasizes topics like teaching kids to wash their hands properly before handling food.  (Set up link at underlining to http://www.spatulatta.com)

 

When it comes to working in the kitchen, you know your children. You know what abilities they have and how fine their motor skills are. Some children are ready to handle a certain kitchen utensil or work at the stove earlier than others. It’s up to you to make that determination.

 

You set the rules in your kitchen, such as you will always light the burners and oven for your children.

 

Go over the workings of every electrical appliance with your child. Explain that the beaters, for example, should be inserted into a hand mixer before the mixer is plugged in.

 

Safety and courtesy are behaviors that need to be re-enforced and modeled.

 

Once you've explained how to handle an item safely, try asking your child to tell you how to do it the next time the task is required when making a recipe. We all learn best when we try to teach.

 

 

CREDIT:

Christina DiMartino has been a freelance and assignment writer since 1985. She is a researcher, interviewer, writer, editor, and manuscript collaborator with a repertoire of clients from around the world.

 

 

PHOTO / ILLUSTRATION RECOMMENDATIONS:

Go to http://www.cookingwithkids.org

 

 

TEASER: 

Cooking with your kids does much more than produce tasty treats! It teaches teamwork, safety, courtesy, math, science, and more, and encourages creativity and imagination. And there are some terrific online videos that will help you get started.


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